‘He was obsessed, possessive’ – Tems recounts toxic relationship

Popular singer, Tems has opened up about her expertise in a toxic relationship the place her companion was “obsessive and possessive.”

Speaking in a candid interview with media persona, Angie Martinez, the Essence crooner mentioned the character of the relationship was opposite to her perception, stressing that she believes {that a} wholesome relationship is about partnership, not possession.

Tems mentioned toxic relationship is draining as a result of generally the toxic companion should not even conscious that they’re toxic.

“I have experienced love where I thought it was love but it was more like when someone is trying to own you. They think that they own you. And that’s not love.

“Love isn’t obsession. And it’s not possession. I am unable to personal one other human being. Love is when each of you turn into one individual.

“We don’t own each other, we are each other. I feel everyone has experienced toxic love with someone who doesn’t even know that they are toxic.

“They say they love you however they do not know that they do not even love you. Because you may’t love somebody you’re feeling you personal,” she expressed.