For Jet Li, Coming to America Meant Playing the Villain
The writer reverse Mel Gibson in Lethal Weapon 4.
Photo: Warner Bros./Everett Collection
Lethal Weapon 4 marked the shift in my movie profession from Hong Kong to Hollywood. Right off the bat, Hollywood gave me many alternatives to follow nonattachment. Before filming even started, the studio performed hardball with the contract negotiation. First, they provided me 1,000,000 {dollars}. I stated I’d give it some thought. The subsequent day, they stated $750,000. I stated I’d give it some thought and mentioned it with my girlfriend. The subsequent day, they provided $500,000. I assumed, Oh, I’m beginning to perceive. This is the American recreation.
I used to be additionally making a big cultural transition. In Asia, I used to be a giant star. Directors and studios needed to make me joyful. But in America, no person cared what I needed. In the late ’90s and early aughts, there have been only a few roles for Asian actors. I knew I’d have to work doubly onerous simply to present what I may do. To start with, I did not communicate the language. I had to examine English like a toddler, sitting with my flash playing cards and reciting “TO is for apple, b “it is for boy.”
There was additionally a shift in the type of character I used to be anticipated to play. In Asia, I had just about all the time performed the hero. Most of my best-known characters had been extremely moral, like Wong Fei-hung from Once Upon a Time in China and Chen Zhen from Fist of Legend. But in Lethal Weapon 4I used to be going to play the villain, a ruthless and merciless Triad gangster named Wah Sing Ku who even punches out a pregnant girl. As horrible as my character is in the movie, the unique script portrayed him as infinitely worse. When I first acquired the script, my girlfriend and I had an enormous struggle. Even although she’d inspired me to take the position, she was horrified by the half when she noticed it.
“Why are you doing this?” she requested me. “You’ll destroy your career and destroy your life. I don’t want you to do it.”
I did not like the position any greater than she did, however I understood this was my probability to break into a brand new market, and I knew I had to show myself. Because my identification now not rested solely on my movie profession, I wasn’t frightened that enjoying a villain would smash my life. Making a movie in America was fairly totally different from making one in Hong Kong. The Hong Kong movie business in the ’90s was like a household enterprise: There weren’t many individuals concerned, and every participant had a number of enter. The enterprise proposition was fairly easy. If a purchaser heard I used to be going to be in a movie, it doesn’t matter what it was, they’d purchase it for the Asian market. Then they’d ask, “What’s next? Let me buy that, too.” Then they needed to know what I used to be doing after that. In this manner, I’d make three motion pictures in a row. The manufacturing was homegrown and streamlined. We’d discover a story, resolve on the solid and crew, and make the film.
But in America, there have been so many individuals concerned. Suddenly I wanted a lawyer, a supervisor, an agent, and a publicity workforce. Every choice had to be green-lit by numerous gatekeepers at the studio; each change had to move by a prolonged chain of command. This was a large company with a enterprise mind-set. Even if one artist or performer had a inventive imaginative and prescient, the studio had closing minimize. It was not attainable to have the identical feeling of management I felt in Hong Kong.
Lethal Weapon 4 proved to be vastly profitable. The studios did viewers assessments on the movie, and I scored just below Mel Gibson — amongst each women and men. The head of a giant studio known as me into his workplace and advised me, “Okay, Jet, you’re bankable. We’re going to give you $25 million. Go kick some guys’ asses and make a shitburger that will make us all money.”
From there, I made a sequence of profitable American motion motion pictures. I kicked guys’ asses and made us all cash. Within a 12 months, I used to be again to enjoying the hero. Life is motion. I broke into the market simply as I supposed to. Still, I knew that irrespective of how onerous I attempted, I may by no means attain the prime of the American film enterprise. My follow saved me wholesome throughout that point. If I had tried to cling to my earlier fame or the filmmaking course of, I’d have prompted myself infinitely extra struggling. My newfound mind-set allowed me to maintain my deal with what actually mattered.
The complete time I used to be on set for Lethal Weapon 4, I used to be training. When I used to be in the make-up chair, I used my headphones to hear to Buddhist teachings. When I used to be standing round ready to shoot, I flicked my beads and recited my mantras. I realized simply sufficient English to ship my strains and reply journalists’ questions throughout interviews. I spent way more time training than I ever spent engaged on any film.
Then life itself gave me a pointy educating on the unavoidability of loss. In 1999, I remarried, and by April 2000, my third daughter was born. Just as this new life entered the world, somebody was making ready to go away. In July, I realized that my mom was critically ailing with most cancers. I used to be filming in Paris at the time, and I left my job and flew again to Beijing to go to her. I needed a information to assist put together me to lose my mom, and I returned to the textual content that had been my first entryway to Buddhism: The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying. I took a duplicate with me to examine on the aircraft. I had studied Buddhism for about three years at the moment, however now I puzzled if I may put it to use.
When I returned residence, my mom was about to die. My kinfolk and pals had been reluctant to go away her. The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying instructs us to create peace at the finish of life and to invite the dying individual to go away peacefully. However, these are all theories. In actuality, at this second, my kinfolk and my mom’s pals had been all surrounding her mattress crying and tending to her. How may I dare to invite her spirit to go away her physique in entrance of all these individuals who would not perceive?
I took the physician apart and requested him, “If all methods of treatment are exhausted, how much longer can my mother live?”
The physician replied, “A week at most.”
I mentioned my mom’s situation with my eldest sister. We agreed that it did not matter whether or not my mom left per week earlier or per week later. The most vital factor to me was that her demise wouldn’t be too painful. We agreed to inform the physician that he ought to keep away from extreme measures to lengthen his life.
As my mom went into her closing decline, I used to be aware of the fact that each one issues come up and move away, and I needed to give her a peaceable send-off. I requested everybody to go away in order that I may very well be alone with my mom for some time. At this time, I stated to her:
“When you’re gone, I will take care of things. You can go without worries. With me at home, my brothers and sisters will have no worries about food and housing for the rest of their lives. Your grandchildren can also get a good education to set them up for a good life. I will ensure all their basic needs are met.”
My mom did not communicate. We sat collectively in silence, simply respiratory. The room turned very nonetheless as I held her hand, feeling her tender pulse in mine. It appeared as if a protracted, very long time had handed. When you might be with somebody at the finish of their life, you’ll be able to really feel the proximity of the vastness they may quickly return to.
Finally my mom checked out me and stated, “It’s just a matter of breath.”
A number of hours later, my mom died.
Her closing phrases sum up the transience, fragility, and great thing about a human life: “It’s just a matter of breath.”
From BEYOND LIFE AND DEATH by Jet Li, printed by Tarcher, an imprint of Penguin Publishing Group, a division of Penguin Random House, LLC. Copyright © 2026 by Jet Li.
